8:37 Recovery & Coaching
"If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you." - James 1:5
I’ve stood where you might be right now drowning in sexual addiction, aching for freedom. My calling is to guide men like you toward real healing, not just papering over the behavior, but mending the heart and restoring it to God the Father. Sobriety isn’t the endgame; it’s the natural overflow of intimacy with Him and a community that gets it. With over a decade of personal recovery and leadership, I offer spiritual direction, biblical counsel, and coaching rooted in Christ’s power. My story, alongside my wife Kristin’s, isn’t about quick fixes; it’s about tough roads, deep restoration, and a God who turns pain into purpose.
My recovery started in September 2010 when I joined Christian Recovery to face my sexual addiction. For 2.5 years, I was sober on the outside, but on the inside, I was a “dry drunk” a sex addict not acting out, but still a wreck inside. Those early programs taught me to stop the inappropriate behavior, but they didn’t touch the deep wounds driving it the inappropriate action. I was somewhat spiritually & emotionally better, more present, and kinder but the pull to dive back into sexual sin did not leave during that time. I hadn’t tackled the brokenness at my core that lead me to my addictive behavior. Then, after 2.5 years, I relapsed; hard for a period of time. It crushed Kristin; she saw through my mask, she felt the wounds reopen, and knew I was acting out sinning again. I’d walked away from recovery during my “sober” stretch, thinking I was all good and healed, but I was fooling myself. She drew the line: “Get back into a program and stop hurting me.” Seeing the pain on her face like I did the first time I disclosed to her finally broke me. In the fall of 2015, I joined a new recovery program, determined to dig into the real questions: “What’s broken inside me that keeps me acting out, knowing it’ll crush Kristin?” That’s when my life turned, when I found a path that didn’t just mask the surface but exposed the noose of my addiction and restored my heart back to God and real brotherhood.
Since then, I’ve poured myself into understanding what fuels sex addiction and helping men like you break free. Licensed as a Minister of the Gospel in 2001, I bring over 20 years of leadership and people development through building, running, and selling multiple home improvement businesses, and now guiding men through recovery. In 2016, Austin Ridge Bible Church asked me to co-lead a sexual addiction recovery program at their Bee Cave Campus. By 2017, I was Program Director, and I’ve since led hundreds of men through a proven Christ-centered recovery process. We’re laser-focused on sexual addiction, combining intentional accountability, discipleship, community, and practical tools to spark spiritual renewal and rebuild ties with God. My approach isn’t like those early programs that left me dry and desperate; it’s about grace, owning your action, and getting to the root so sobriety flows naturally.
Not long ago, Kristin stood before roughly 50 men in recovery and dropped a bold truth: “Guys, our road through recovery was rough, painful, and scary at times, but I wouldn’t change it now for anything. I see how God is using our broken story and wounds to bring hope and healing into your lives and your families’.” The feelings behind her words are courageous and inspiring to me! She deeply knows the wreckage I caused, felt the poison of betrayal, yet today she stands with me, trusting God’s bigger plan for our lives. Now, she walks alongside me, helping women process the pain of betrayal trauma, turning her scars into hope for women who feel lost. Together, we’ve seen God heal not just us individually, but our marriage, and countless other men and their families lives as well.
God’s Word is my foundation, every coaching tool, every piece of counsel, runs through a biblical lens. The gospel doesn’t just forgive sin; it transforms our lives to be more like Christ. I’m not a licensed therapist or LPC, and I don’t claim to be. I’m here to offer spiritual coaching and biblical advising, leading you through practical steps to heal and grow. For deeper mental health needs, I’ll connect you with trusted Christian counselors to ensure you’re covered. What I bring is real, lived experience. I’ve been the guy hating what he’s become, breaking promises, feeling trapped. I’ve slogged through programs that skipped my wounds and left me hollow, and I’ve found the real deal; restoration through Christ and community. God healed me, restored my marriage, and turned my chaos into a calling. Over the years, I’ve walked with hundreds of men through the same fire, watching God the Father do it again and again.
If you’re ready to move past just trying to stop the sinful behavior, ready to heal your heart and find real FREEDOM, we are here for you. My life, and Kristin’s, proves God can take the hardest roads and make them matter. We’ve been through the hurt and betrayal, and now we’re helping others find lasting healing; me with men, and Kristin with women. You’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay stuck. We have been where you are, and I know the way out. Reach out now; I’d be honored to stand shoulder-to-shoulder with you on this journey.
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Note: We specialize in biblical sexual addiction recovery and coaching, we are not licensed counseling. For mental health needs, we’ll connect you to a licensed therapist or LPC.
