Spouse

We see you and God sees you.

To the wives of men struggling with porn & sexual addiction:

Your husband’s struggle with addiction, compulsion, or inappropriate behavior may have wounded you deeply; leaving you with betrayal, anger, confusion, or even self-blame. His choices have stolen your joy, shattered your trust, and fractured the marriage, and possibly hurt the way you see yourself. At 837 Recovery & Coaching, we understand the trauma this brings and we are ready to fight to help the two of you restore your marriage. Our mission is to guide him back to the Father and to you. Helping him earn your trust over time, create new memories with you and your family, and hold him accountable for his actions and to his goals.

But hear this: your husband’s betrayal doesn’t have to define your marriage forever. When the two of you surrender this to God, He can give you and your marriage a new identity. He’s bigger than any sin a person can commit including sexual betrayal. His power to heal and restore far exceeds the pain the two of you are facing and the wrongs committed. You’re not alone, and real hope lies ahead.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” – Jeremiah 29:11

What He’s Facing and How We Help:

More than likely your husband's struggle is not about you, it’s about the way he has learned to medicate the wounds he sustained during childhood and his formative years, along with the lies he consciously or unconsciously believed about himself. This is a battle only God can win, renewing his heart through Christ. Our Christ-centered program points him to the Father:

• 12 Weeks to Freedom: A biblical recovery plan with tools, group support, and accountability to lead him from darkness into God’s light.

• Personal Coaching: 1-to-1 coaching with me, Graeme Wright; to Guide him through this process with Scripture, and truth.

• A Strong Community: Brothers in Christ in the same journey of healing who uphold God’s standards with care, not judgment.

• Lifetime Membership: Our “no man left behind” promise; once an 837 Conqueror, he’s got our support, curriculum, and classes for life.

What You’re Feeling and What’s True:

• “I’m shattered by his betrayal.” That pain is real, and it’s not your fault. God doesn’t blame you, He’s near and ready to heal. We’re not therapists (we’ll happily refer you to a Christian licensed professional if needed), but we’ve seen God restore broken hearts and marriages time and time again.

• “Can he change?” Yes, through God’s power and our proven process. “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible” (Matthew 19:26). Our 100% money-back guarantee stands behind our work, but his transformation hinges on surrendering to God and following our system.

• “I just want my husband back.” We get it. Sobriety Is the starting line, but what you, and God truly want is him living a surrendered life to the Father, not just pleasing you. When he seeks God daily, the marriage you long for can and will follow.

“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” – Psalm 147:3

Your Hope, Your Joy, His Freedom:

This isn’t the end of your story. God’s plans for you, your husband, and your marriage are beyond what you can see right now, He doesn’t abandon His own. A sober husband isn’t your ultimate victory; it’s a benefit you receive from him seeking God with all his heart.

We’ll fight for that with him and for you! I urge you to anchor your hope and joy in your Creator King. He’s the rock that never shifts, the peace that never fades, and the grace that is unceasing. Take the First Step for Him, for You, for God’s Glory.